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LGBT Weddings: Forms and Formalities

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Our Experience

As a company that embraces our amazing friends and clients in the LGBT community, we’ve been honored to be a part of many elegant same-sex weddings. As part of our evolving communication with engaged couples, we’ve invested the time into creating some forms which take into account the feedback they’ve given. We offer them here as a gift to the community, wedding planners, wedding venues, officiants, and other DJs. Feel free to use them and/or change them to suit your company or your clients.

So What Has Changed?

Language. We’ve asked our same-sex couples how they’d like to be formally presented to their family and friends, and the response has been “newlyweds”.

Formalities/Activities. Most of our same-sex couples aren’t interested in activities like the garter removal and bouquet toss, so we’ve changed those sections of our document so that they can write in these kinds of activities if they would like them.

Besties. Traditionally, most of our grooms have had a best man, and most of our brides have had a maid or matron of honor. However, one of the greatest toasts I’ve heard in my 24 years as a DJ was by the female best friend of one of the grooms at a recent wedding. This client asked for her to be presented as his “Best Person”.

Special Dances. The father/daughter and mother/son dances still play a very important role in paying homage to loving relationships with our clients’ parents. Recently, we’ve hosted some partners who have chosen formal dances with special people other than the opposite sex parent. Our planning tools now reflect those wishes.

How can we help?

More work is still needed to address same-sex couples with the level of dignity and respect they deserve on the most important day of their lives. NYX Entertainment & Events is working toward that goal and if these documents can assist you, it is our honor to present them. We’re open to your feedback on how they can be improved, and what other considerations we can make to produce for all of our couples their #BestDayEver.

Download:

http://bit.ly/NYX-Events-Same-Sex-Wedding-Docs – zip file contents are virus-free .pdf files.

Top Tips for the Perfect Party

A lifelong entertainer and certified event planner with over 25 years experience, NYX Entertainment & Events CEO and Creative Director Howard Teger knows a thing or two about throwing a great celebration! Here are his Top Tips for the Perfect Party.

1 – Timing Is Everything!
Spacing out food, formalities, and dancing is the key to a party that flows naturally for the best guest experience. It is essential to balance these three main elements of your party. Fight the urge to have all of your formalities at the beginning. While these moments are critically important to you, making sure all your guests have fun should be important as well.

2 – Meet and Greet!
You absolutely need to go meet your vendors at their offices! There is invaluable peace of mind in shaking hands with the people you’re counting on for one of the most precious days of your life. Referrals from your friends and reviews from websites like Yelp! are valuable, but they are only part of the equation. Friends and reviewers may not know which parts of your big day are the most important to YOU.

In addition to being able to see the professionalism of the environment in which they work to prepare for your event, you should get a feel for whether a vendor’s personality is compatible with yours. You will be spending a lot of time working on event details with these people. Meeting them at their headquarters will reveal crucial insight on the scale and scope of their operation as well as the level of time and attention they will devote to making your event a resounding success!

3 – For A Good Time, Call… A Professional!
Just as you wouldn’t go to a part-time doctor if you needed surgery, you shouldn’t go to a part-time vendor for your once-in-a-lifetime event. Full-time professionals often have years more practice and experience under their belt, which helps them deal with the inevitable curve balls so smoothly that your guests never even knew there was an issue! And should your part-time vendor strike out, you may have very little legal recourse.

When someone’s livelihood depends on making sure your event is flawless, you will get a much higher standard of performance and customer service. This applies to florists, caterers, photographers, entertainment, party planners, and decorators. We would be happy to point you in the direction of the industry’s finest professionals in all of those areas (and we recommend you go meet them! – see #2).

More info…
So there you have some quick tips that will help for your first interactions with potential vendors. If you have any questions or need help getting started, we’d be glad to help you. Email info@nyxevents.com or drop us a line at 301.984.0500 anytime.

The Best Playlist Ever Made!

One of the most important aspects of any great party is the music. With guests ranging in age from 8 to 80, multiple cultures, religions, and personalities, the best playlist ever made must not leave anyone out.

No one understands this better than the DJs at NYX. When you combine the talent and experience of our seasoned professional DJs with your personal favorite songs, the result is your perfect playlist.

Our state-of-the-art online music portal allows you to engage with your NYX DJ 24/7. In addition to the ability to manage all the details of your event, you’ll be able to browse our library of hundreds of thousands of songs and create the dream musical landscape for your occasion using the following categories:

1. The “Must Play” List
These are the important songs that must be played. They’re the songs that we’ll use for special introductions and any other formalities you may have planned. They’re the songs that aren’t negotiable. Think about the anthems of your generation that you’ll adore hearing throughout the night or maybe songs that take you back to a specific, happy time of your life that you want to share with your guests.

2. The “Do Not Play” List
We like to keep you and your guests happy. We know your NYX DJ will only play the best tracks, but we want YOU to know that, too. Just to be sure we’re on the same page, we offer you the “do-not-play” list.

3. The “Play Only if Requested” List
These aren’t your favorite songs, but you wouldn’t mind hearing them if your guests would like to. Often what makes this list are songs that have choreographed line dances. Your DJ will only visit this list when your guests ask for something, it’s clear that they will have fun dancing to it, and it fits appropriately into the schedule and flow for your event.

4. The “Dedications” List
These are the songs for which you would like your DJ or MC to make an announcement. Is someone at your party celebrating a birthday or anniversary? Perhaps you’d like to have a special dance for someone that has traveled particularly far. Maybe you’d like to rile up your rowdy college friends or sing along to your team’s fight song. Let’s be sure we note it in this section so we don’t miss that once-in-a-lifetime opportunity!

Make It Memorable
Our goal is to deliver a happy mix of music ensuring that every guest leaves your party having heard their favorite song. Our experienced DJs can read the crowd and will intuitively know what to play to keep your dance floor moving. The best playlist ever made is the one you will make with us… The one that will make your #BestDayEver memorable for years to come.

Need Suggestions?
The soundtrack to your event is a huge part of what makes it memorable for your family and friends. Need help getting started? Call us today so that we can begin creating the best playlist ever made.